Yes, once you see this title most of you will click the scroll button and not even look. You've seen so much these past few months on the subject of bullying and you just don't care anymore, right? No. See there's two sides in each school. The ones who stand up to bullying by saying something back. And then there's the ones who go straight to the principle and don't try and handle the situation themselves. Now I know some of you would say, oh no it's not like that, but it is. I'm not saying it's a bad thing to tell someone if you are getting bullied; I'm saying that maybe you should try and handle it yourself first and see what happens. And yeah, A lot of times that may not work and it seems like they'll never stop.
Listen, You HAVE to keep trying. You can't go through life not doing something about the problem yourself. You need to stand your ground and be confident. If you're not, act like it. When you're older and you have a job and one of your coworkers isn't being to professional by making remarks that are'nt business like; what are you going to do? Tell your boss? No. They want to see you deal with it, because if you can't then why would they want you working for them when you can't handle a problem?
I know bullying isn't as simple as that one example. I know what you're going through. I've been through it myself. No, don't go out there trying to fight someone and use violence. Stand up for yourself. You don't even have to cuss. Just stand your ground and turn their words on them. It's very simple. Some of you may say, "Hey I'm not like that. That's creating another problem for me and I just don't want to deal with it."
I promise you it won't be like that. As long as you believe what you're sayin and so do the people around you, there is NO problem. You're not being like them and saying something back, you're standing up for yourself and there is nothing wrong with one bit. Don't let anyone tell you that. Now I'm done ranting and I wish you all the best of luck. c:
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